Whew. The mental cartwheels are REAL.
- “But I don’t look like the other women you post…”
- “There’s no way I could pull that off with this body.”
- “I wish I looked like her.”
Listen. Comparison is the thief of joy — and I know I say that a lot to everyone, but that’s because it’s one of the truest things you’ll ever hear about women and our bodies.
No finger pointing. No shame. I’m guilty of it too.
But let’s totally break it down for a second.
The woman you think is perfect — the one on our newest post, or the one whose images stopped you mid-scroll — most likely hates her body just as much as you do yours.
I’m serious.
I have not had ONE woman come through our doors saying:
“Hi, I’m flawless and I need the world to know.”
Absolutely not. 🤦♀️ That’s not how any of this works.
We’re all fighting private battles with mirrors and insecurities that nobody else sees.
And then… you book the session.
And girl, that’s when a whole new wave of anxious energy hits.
Because now – it’s real.
But here’s the thing — You’re not doing this alone.
👉 You get emails and texts covering a plethora of related topics: wardrobe ideas- because “What style pieces will flatter me best?”. Manicure messages – because “Is there a “right” color to wear?” And even grooming guidance – because “How much of that is necessary?”
👉 You get me calling you ahead of time for a pre-session pow-wow — talking about timeline, flow, what to expect, what not to stress about.
And yes – we’ll cover that next wave of questions and stresses:
- “How can you hide my stomach?”
- “I’ve lost weight and now I have all this loose skin.”
- “My face has some scarring…”
- “My hair is super thin…”
- “I don’t want my port to show…”
- “Can you hide this? Can you minimize that?”
Every woman has something.
Every worry is real.
And every one of them matters to us.
So let me give you the universal answer first:
We. Have. Got. You.
Period.
And now let’s get into the specifics of how it is that we do:
And now let’s get into the specifics of how it is that we do:
1. You booked with us for a reason. 🙌
You trust Amy’s artistry, her talent, her eye, her skill — and let me tell you, she delivers every single time. This is what she does. You’re safe in that.
2. Wardrobe? Handled. 👠
We’ve got wardrobe options for multiple reasons:
- You don’t need to spend a bunch of money.
- You don’t need to stress about what will flatter.
- And mostly?
This is our world.
We look at you and instantly know: “Ohhh that red piece? That’s going to contour exactly the way she wants.” “That pastel blue? That’s going to make her elongated torso look perfect” “That black two-piece? That’s gonna make the perfect booty shot for her!”
We know because we’ve done this hundreds of times. We’ve seen every shape, every curve, every angle — and we celebrate all of them.
3. Lighting is our secret weapon. 💡
Go look at any image we’ve ever posted. Notice how the light hits what we want to highlight — and the shadows fall exactly where we want softness.
It’s not magic.
It just feels like it.
4. Posing is where it’s at. 🧘♀️
You don’t need to know what you’re doing. At all.
Amy will show you every pose. She’ll place you, guide you, adjust your hands, your chin, your hips, your arch.
And yes — you’re going to feel awkward. You’re going to think:
“Really? Like this? I feel like a giraffe on skis.” 🦒⛷️
But then you see that back of the camera image and suddenly you realize you’re a goddess in a work of art.
5. And please hear this last part…
The images you see online? They’re only the ones we have permission to share.
So if you’ve ever thought:
- “They don’t photograph older women.”
We do. Some choose privacy. - “There aren’t many plus-size women in your gallery.”
We photograph a countless number of women. Every size. They absolutely love the experience but maybe aren’t quite ready for the world to see it. - “I’ve never seen anyone with my body type…”
Trust me — we have photographed women who look just like you.
You might not see them publicly, but they’re here, and they killed it. 🔥
Women share based on comfort, jobs, beliefs, privacy, relationships — not because they don’t look good. Because damnnnn, they look good!
So stop talking yourself out of this.
Stop believing the lie that you’re not “enough.”
Not skinny enough. Not curvy enough. Not young enough. Not toned enough. Not sexy enough. Not brave enough.
Girl… enough.
You don’t have to be anything other than exactly who and how you are.
We’ve got you. We know what we’re doing.
And you’re going to walk out of that studio seeing yourself in a way you haven’t in a very long time.
Or maybe ever.